Accepting One Another
While preparing to teach a Bible class recently, I ran across a little gem I would like to share. As part of an on-going study of the one another passages I was looking at Romans 15:7, where Paul admonishes the followers of Christ to:
“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.”
This notion fits into a broader context involving the tension and conflict between stronger and weaker Christians in Rome. This tension is introduced in Romans 14:1 where we read:
“Accept him whose faith is weak, without passing judgment on disputable matters.”
William Barclay seems to cut through to the core of the issue with these thoughts…
In this chapter Paul is dealing with what may have been a temporary and local problem in the Roman Church, but is also one continually confronting the Church and always demanding solution. In the Church at Rome there were apparently two lines of thought. There were some who believed that in Christian liberty the old tabus were gone; they believed that the old food laws were now irrelevant; they believed that Christianity did not consist in the special observance of any one day or days. Paul makes it clear that this in fact is the standpoint of real Christian faith. On the other hand, there were those who were full of scruples; they believed that it was wrong to eat meat; they believed in the rigid observance of the Sabbath tyranny. Paul calls the ultra-scrupulous man the man who is weak in the faith. What does he mean by that?
Such a man is weak in the faith for two reasons:
(i) He has not yet discovered the meaning of Christian freedom; he is at heart still a legalist and sees Christianity as a thing of rules and regulations.
(ii) He has not yet liberated himself from a belief in the efficacy of works. In his heart he believes that he can gain God’s favour by doing certain things and abstaining from others. Basically he is still trying to earn a right relationship with God, and has not yet accepted the way of grace, still thinking more of what he can do for God than what God has done for him.
Paul bids the stronger brethren to welcome such a person and not to besiege him with continual criticisms.
This problem is not confined to the days of Paul. To this day in the Church there are two points of view. There is the more liberal which sees no harm in many things and is well content that many an innocent pleasure should go on within the Church. And there is the narrower point of view, which is offended at many things in which the liberal person sees no harm.
Paul’s sympathies are all with the broader point of view; but, at the same time, he says that when one of these weaker brethren comes into the Church he must be received with brotherly sympathy. When we are confronted with someone who holds the narrower view there are three attitudes we must avoid.
(i) We must avoid irritation. An impatient annoyance with such a person gets us nowhere. However much we may disagree, we must try to see the other person’s point of view and to understand it.
(ii) We must avoid ridicule. No man remains unwounded when that which he thinks precious is laughed at. It is no small sin to laugh at another man’s beliefs. They may seem prejudices rather than beliefs; but no man has a right to laugh at what some other holds sacred. In any event, laughter will never woo the other man to a wider view; it will only make him withdraw still more determinedly into his rigity.
(iii) We must avoid contempt. It is very wrong to regard the narrower person as an old-fashioned fool whose views may be treated with contempt. A man’s views are his own and must be treated with respect. It is not even possible to win a man over to our position unless we have a genuine respect for his. Of all attitudes towards our fellow man the most unChristian is contempt.
Barclay goes on to write about other considerations. These succinct observations seem to get to the heart of the matter. Knowing why it is that others choose to think the way they think is helpful. Knowing how we should interact with those who choose to see things differently is, in my estimation, even more helpful. This is especially true, since Paul will shortly turn to the topic of instructing one another. In Romans 15:14 he writes:
“I myself am convinced, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, complete in knowledge and competent to instruct one another.”
Here’s my thought:
It seems that when those who possess a more mature faith avoid irritation, ridicule and contempt in their response to the person who is weak in the faith, we are much more likely to move beyond the narrow mindedness that often constricts and constrains the body of Christ. For this fosters a climate conducive to both carrying out the necessary faith-building instruction and for this teaching to be gratefully received.
What do you think?
© Bill Williams
November 6, 2007


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So are you saying as a Christian my only choices are:
“more liberal”
“narrower/ narrow mindedness”
“liberal”?
What if I worry more about Jesus and less about the religio-political nature of my brethren? What does that make me?
[Thank you for your comment, Rusty. You’ve prompted me to think beyond the simple message of the post, which I do appreciate very much. I’m not sure if I see the religio-political nature of brethren in the quote from Barclay. But, I do believe I understand where you are coming from in making this comment. Please know that I don’t mean for my reply to sound rude, though I am aware that it may come across that way to you. First, “what” your perspective (as in what you worry about in this regard) makes you is not for me to determine. God will decide, ultimately. You will reveal your heart on the matter by how you decide to treat others, whether they are more liberal or more narrow than you. Second, though I could quibble mildly with the notion of “worrying more about Jesus…” I will not. What I will suggest is that our devotion to Jesus is evidenced most vividly in how we esteem those who through the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ have received a faith as precious as ours, whether they be narrower or more liberal than are we. This is why the second greatest commandment is to love our neighbor as our selves. May God’s richest blessings be yours as you continue your journey into the enjoyed presence of God. -bill]
March 26th, 2008 at 9:37 amHi, Bill. I didn’t get to read this in November. You know how “WE” do things. I’m partially very ill right now because of the “way” we do our “728-b” things. Whenever I mention Ephesians 4:14-15 in a setting where I’m allowed to speak, everybody looks at me like I’ve got two heads.
CENI is a good structure, but without love, it hurts the Son of God Himself. I know that Jesus is the Head of The Church, and that how we operate should be based on His Authority, since all Authority belongs to Him.
Bill, where have you been all of my life?
See why I have to scribble?
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ephesians%204:14-15;&version=31;
March 26th, 2008 at 10:34 am[Hello, Nedra. Sorry your comment got trapped in the spam filter. I have it set to capture all comments with links. I’m sure you understand. My hope is that you will keep on scribbling. Your voice definitely needs to be heard, dear sister! I hope many friends of the Spiritual Oasis will stop by More Than Scribble for a visit. Blessings in Christ, -bill]
Hi, Bill. Thank you. You are so kind. I didn’t even know where it landed, but I guess that link to Bible Gateway could have done it. I forget that people can just open their Bibles to the scripture I type. My apologies.
God bless you in all that you do. Although, I’m going to be moving much slower on this blog, I really appreciate our connections. I’m still searching for God’s will, 20 years after deciding to obey the Gospel. It’s weird to be searching now and trying to sift through it all. I need everybody’s prayer.
With peace and at a turtle’s pace,
March 26th, 2008 at 4:52 pmNedra