Safe Surfing

Few technological advancements have revolutionized the human experience more rapidly or more dramatically than the Internet. We have e-cards, e-commerce, e-fax, e-file, e-libraries, e-loans, e-mail, e-news, e-trades, e-zines and… e-almost-any-and-everything. We can even find long-lost loved ones via the “Net.” Through this modern marvel, the world is literally at our fingertips.

Never before has such a tool existed. It allows us to communicate the Gospel globally, while maintaining the ability to conduct individual follow-up with those seeking the Lord. Additionally, this technological tool enables us to educate and edify believers the world over. What an incredible opportunity!

While there are many positive things to say about the Internet, I hasten to raise one or two thousand caution flags. The Internet can and should serve as a tool for accomplishing great good in the world. But, there are dangers to avoid. We need to be cognizant of these and prepared to take the necessary steps to deal with the dangers lurking on the world wide web. Not all of these plummet us into the dark world of wanton wickedness. Some are less severe; but, there are pitfalls to avoid. Hopefully, you find the following to be helpful:

(1) BE ADVISED… The Internet can rob you of huge chunks of time as you click through link after link. You know the drill. Read a news story. Follow the embedded links to several related stories. Look at something else that catches your eye; get an update on a favorite sports team; check the latest weather forecast; and, before you know it, 30 or 40 minutes have passed. Do this a couple of times in a day, six or seven days a week and an entire workday has clicked through your fingers. Benjamin Franklin said, “Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for it is the stuff life is made of.” Through the Apostle Paul, God instructs, “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is” (Ephesians 5:15-17). If we are not careful the Internet will rob us of valuable time which could be better spent in a variety of productive ways.

(2) BE ALERT… There are many insidious forces at work on the Internet. Based on the practices of the most proficient and prolific Internet users, the more accurate nomenclature for this cyber-entity just might be: The sInternet! One fact alone supports this assertion: As many as 20 million adults visit cybersex sites each month. This is astounding! Everyone should be alert, for our “enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). No doubt, the devil utilizes the World Wide Web as a means for promoting world wide wickedness. You name it and it’s on the Internet. Cyberstalkers search for unsuspecting children in chat rooms; pornography sites send out their alluring emails by the billions; and opportunities for marital infidelity are abundant. “Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?” (Proverbs 6:27) Be alert!

(3) BE AGGRESSIVE… There are many ways to protect yourself and your family from the digital dangers skulking on the Internet. Do some research. Find out what will work best for you in your circumstances. Focus on the Family provides helpful information on their web site. Go to www.family.org and search for Internet safety. Another helpful site related to Internet safety is www.isafe.org. Parents, we especially need to be aggressive in supervising your children in their Internet usage. You should know whom they are talking with and about what. In addition to the basic safety information available on many web sites, let your children know that nothing should be written in an Instant Message that wouldn’t be spoken in a restaurant, where it is sure to be overheard (by a concerned and highly engaged parent). Also, let them know they are the primary filters for what will and will not be viewed on their web browsers. Talk to them candidly about the likelihood of encountering unwholesome content and teach them to: “Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:21-22).

No doubt about it, the Internet provides us with exciting opportunities never before experienced by humans. While seeking to maximize the positive, spiritually enriching usage of the world wide web, let us not minimize the dangers lurking there. When it comes to the Internet, we need to be informed of the hazards and insist that our families surf safely!

© Bill Williams

3 Responses to “Safe Surfing”

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    ken hargesheimer Says:

    Bill,

    I have just begun a DVD Ministry. Brethren provide me with DVDs and I mail free sets to others who are going abroad. Can supply brethren in USA, also. Email me at minifarms@gmail.com for info.

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    Rachel Says:

    Many people approach the internet like the ocean. At first, they stand on the sand barely letting the water wash over their feet. = (maybe checking e-mail once or twice a week) Once they have adjusted to the water temperature, they step in up to their knees, then their waist, etc. = (Surfing the web every evening) Some stop and head back for the shore before going in too deep, realizing that enough is enough. They set boundaries. = (Check e-mail every other day–surfing no more than 15 minutes) Yet, others keep going deeper allowing the current to pull them in and suck them under, and they are swept away before they realize what’s happened. = (Surfing the net, in chat rooms til 2:00 a.m., losing sleep, isolating themselves from others to spend time on the net, etc.)

    It’s really about setting boundaries for yourself. If you remind yourself that God is always there, watching over EVERYTHING that you do, it really makes a difference in how you choose to live your life and spend your time.

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    Luke Gilkerson Says:

    Have you heard of Covenant Eyes monitoring and filtering programs? It is a unique program on the market because it gives the user flexibility to filter or simply monitor the Internet or both. A good filtering program is very helpful for children and families, but a good monitoring program is great for adults and children alike who want to be accountable to others about where they go online.

    Covenant Eyes monitoring program simply tracks (without blocking) everywhere someone goes online. Then each part of each Web page is rated and scored for its content (scores are based on obscene material). Users choose 2 or 3 people that they want to receive a detailed “accountability report” of all their online activity (emails to them or available to see online 24/7). What this does is it allows complete freedom to the person using the Internet, but it takes away the anonymity of online activity; people are more likely to exorcise self-control when they know that others will be reviewing their whereabouts online.

    Covenant Eyes also has a promotional code you can use to get a free month to try out their accountability service. Go to http://www.covenanteyes.com and enter promocode ‘onefree’ to receive a free 30 day trial of the program.

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