Humility tops the list of the virtues to be sought by Godâ€™s children. Jesus places it first on the list of blessed attitudes He endorses. The first beatitude begins, â€œBlessed are the poor in spiritâ€¦â€
True humility is often an elusive quality. For most of us, becoming more humble is one of lifeâ€™s most difficult challenges. We spend our lives endeavoring to more fully learn what it means to walk humbly with God. Tragically, the moment we conclude that we have â€œarrivedâ€ is the very moment we cease to walk in humility. One author jokingly conveyed this notion when he proposed the following title for his book on the topic: Humility, And How I Attained It.
Humility is also misunderstood. On the one hand, truly humble people are easily misused or abused. They will seldom complain or demand their rights. On the other hand, feigned humility can be used as an excuse for non-involvement in ministry.
This is illustrated by the response one church member made, when asked to help with a good work. He said something like: â€œOh, Iâ€™m just one of the humble members around here. You should ask brother So-and-so. Heâ€™ll probably do it.â€
Indeed, humility is often misunderstood; and, growth in humility is very challenging. Still, Jesus promises a blessing to those who are truly humble, stating â€œtheirs is the kingdom of heaven.â€ Therefore, we should all endeavor to walk more humbly with the Lord. To help shed some light on the subject, the following characteristics of a humble person are suggested. A truly humble Christian is:
Honest: The humble person knows his or her God-given talents and limitations. She is aware of both her strengths and her weaknesses. She admits to failure as readily as claiming success. She is aware that it is only by the grace of God that she is what she is and will become what she hopes to be.
Unpretentious: The humble person is a sincere servant of God. Whatever he does, he works with all of his heart for the Lord, not for men. He seeks only to serve, not to be seen. His heartâ€™s delight is to hear others praise the Father in heaven.
Manageable: The humble person has taken to herself the â€œyoke of Christ.â€ She remains teachable. She is growing in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. God, the Master Potter, is constantly shaping her life. So, she remains soft and pliable and is continually being conformed to the image of Godâ€™s Son.
Bold: The humble person knows that serving God means he must dare to travel the road less taken. Because he marches for the Master, he must forge ahead when others shrink back. He also knows that standing with God often involves standing against those who oppose the will of God. He understands that a Christian must stand for something or he will fall for almost anything.
Loving: The humble person is one from whom others continually hear of Godâ€™s love. Love is in her heart, because the cross of Christ is always in her mind. She knows what it is to be loved, so her life is an expression of Godâ€™s love. She walks in love. Yes, she boldly stands with and for God; but she lovingly encourages others to do the same. She lives to show others Godâ€™s love.
Enthusiastic: The humble person remembers that someone once said that enthusiasm has a literal meaning of â€œGod within.â€ He believes it! He is, literally speaking, an eternal optimist, always pressing on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. He is known for reminding others that â€œif God is for us, who can be against us?â€ When the doubters seek to throw cold water on great plans for the Lord, his response is: â€œI can do all things through Him who strengthens me.â€ Even when things look bleak and gloomy, he or she draws strength from God within and remains fervent in spirit.
Perhaps we all should ask: â€œAm I truly a humble follower of Jesus?â€
Â© Bill Williams